Amazing Sex

Anyone who is having an affair will probably tell you that the sex is Amazing. Mindblowing. Incredible. Why is that such a universal thing? Is it because it is forbidden, illicit, morally wrong. I thought it was because we had an amazing connection. I guess I thought wrong.

He came around that night after I had invited him with two bottles of wine. We hadn’t seen each other since I found out he was married and I think we were both a bit nervous. We sat in the kitchen and talked, and I drank my wine rather too fast. He pulled me over to sit on his knee and we kissed……….an amazing kiss filled with gentle tenderness. We went and sat in the living room together holding hands and drinking our wine and the conversation flowed easily and somehow we managed to end up in bed. We had slept together twice before but it was NOTHING like this. It was amazing. Since seperating with my husband during my “Year Of Fun” I did have sex with a number of men and I always found it so unfullfilling, empty in a way. Sex for sex’s sake is dull I find. If there is no connection, no feeling for the other person then it is just a physical act, that is why I hadn’t slept with anyone for six months. I would rather be celibate that have meaningless empty sex with anyone. When I was married, my husband and I had the most unbelieveable incredible sex life (untill the last couple of years-but for ten years it was amazing)and I had never found sex like that again until this night with MM. It was like being in a time warp, hours passed in a steamy haze, it was fantastic. We eventually fell asleep until it was time for him to leave. He held me in his arms and kissed my head gently before he left. I felt on top of the world. He text me when he got home- something lovely but I can’t remember exactly what. I was filled up to the max……………for a short time anyway. The contact over the next few days was sporadic to say the least, and when he did text it would be something crude and filthy. This made my heart sink. I felt as though I had been used and was purely a sex object to him, but this confused me because of the wonderful intimate night we had spent together. I just don’t get how someone can be so intimate, so connected during the act, when the person means absoltelt nothing to them. I am on another planet where that is concerned. When I share my body with someone it means something-they mean something to me.

When I told him of my concerns he replied

It’s all in your head

Was it all in my head? He was making me doubt myself, yet I should have trusted my instincts all along. He played me so so well. After I told him how he was making me feel, he did make an effort in his texts to not be so crude, but of course this was to keep me sweet. He was still distant though and I was constantly on edge, always checking my phone, elated when he text, empty and frustrated when he didn’t.  My brain didn’t want to believe what my heart already knew.

                                        

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A Reflective Day

Today I have had to clear out my loft as it is getting insulated soon. Sounds simple enough, but the truth is there was 11 years of my past life with my ex husband up there. I won’t lie -it was tough. I found a million photos of us in happier times, even old love letters he used to send to me when we first started “going out” He used to post them to my house every day (this was in the days before mobile phones and internet) I have well moved on from that relationship, but it was sad. I even threw my wedding dress in the skip. I suppose that seems harsh, but what is the point of keeping it? To cry over every few years when I go in the loft? To pass to my daughters…the dress of a failed marriage….no- it was hard but it had to go. I kept the love letters though. It reminded me that once I was loved. Loved to the nth degree. Loved like a princess. I wonder if I will ever be loved like that again, but if I am not at least I know that once upon a long ago I was loved truly and deeply.

My children met his new partner at the weekend…that was hard too. I went round their house and we all had a takeaway.A strange situation I suppose but it was good to see where they will be going at weekends and who with. I cried on the way home. I don’t love him anymore and I have no idea where the tears came from……… I suppose it is hard seeing your once husband in a new house with someone else he loves now. Its been tough, but I’m still standing.

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And Then There Were Three……………………

I have been having such a good time messing about with MM’s brain and I have been sharing it all the way with my best friend. He DESPISES this man, and did all the time I was seeing him, and so he has decided to have a play himself. He has set up an account purely for his own entrtainment purposes, and to see if he can “bag” MM too! There is the added challenge we have decided of adding as many song titles into the messages as we can.  For instance, “do you think you can  “relight my fire”  I am in an unhappy relationship but “I’m still standing” etc etc. Her name is “Denise” by the way.

LO AND BEHOLD he responded to her wink straight away with a message using all the lines he has used before. “you can string more than a few sentences together” etc etc. He is so bloody predictable and is even using lines and phrases that “Kate” and “Trudy” have said to him. He insists that he is “Honest and Genuine” as well.

Now I have had to think where I am going with all of this. Now he has 3 women on the go, he is a  busy boy. I have decided that Trudy is going to arrange a meeting and stand him up next and then Denise. I think 3 is a nice number to be stood up by. I haven’t yet decided how he is going to find out, or how else to screw with him but if any readers have any suggestions then feel free to add your requests, I am more than happy to oblige. Just seeing his face every time I log in to the site makes me feel sick. He is a poor, pathetic excuse for a man.

                                                                    

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Lies, Lies……………..and more Lies.

Well I need to get down the correspondance from today and last night between “Trudy” and “Kate” or I will never catch up. He is relentless!

First of all I will share with you the conversations between vulnerable Trudy and The Master Of Deception……………………….

Hi you,

I know you are busy with work today but I just thought I d say good morning, don t know if you will get this, but hope to speak to you later. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx (Of course I knew he was bust getting ready for his fuck with Kate)

Never too busy to chat Trudy.  How are you?  I’m off to xxxxxx in around 20 mins.    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx( There was some truth in that, he was off to xxxxxxx to fuck Kate)

Just heading off now.  Was hoping you might’ve text by now, but can’t blame you if you’re not sure.  Have a good day sexy lady and can’t wait to chat to you again. 

Hi Sexy,

How has your day been? You got your work finished fast, I wish I’d have known, I was well up for meeting today. It would have been nice to meet up for lunch at a nice little bistro and then have a sexy snog in the car afterwards. I might have even put my hand in your pants to have a feel of that cock. I bet it would ve been rock hard. I am so horny thinking about having sex with you behind my husbands back…I think the naughtiness of it adds to it don’t you. I keep looking at him and thinking.”HA you don’t know what I am up to” Do you feel like that with your wife or do you feel guilty?? I know we haven’t met yet but I kind of feel I am having an affair already!!

My husband can be violent sometimes, so its so good to be having some fun, I feel like I am getting my own back. I can’t imagine you would ever hit your wife, you seem too nice.(I put this because he told me he gave his wife a black eye when he found out he was cheating)

When can we meet. I was so dissapointed your work got in the way today! Still thats life I suppose.

Speak soon

Trudy. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

P.S I sent you a wink before!!

I too am looking forward to us meeting sexy.  It’s a real shame as I’ve had a few opportunities over the last few days but we couldn’t quite sort it.  I didn’t want to appear too eager either. 
She has just gone out again now until 10 tonight, at a meeting so maybe she is up to the same thing lol xx Could you pretend to go to the gym tonight, that would be very exciting and spur of the moment, and dare I say it heart pounding!!!  xx
I’d have loved to have a sexy snog with you and if you were wearing a skirt then maybe I’d have got my fingers wet too. (ewwwwwwwwwwwww)
If you can’t make tonight, then lunch some time sounds great.  Let me know when you are available and I’ll look at my diary to see when I will be working from home again.
Let me know by mail or text.

This is soooooo exciting xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi,

I haven’t been on the site today. I’m too busy with life in general and mailing you. I don’t really need it now though, I am only looking for one person for some fun. I just can’t imagine sleeping with loads of people at at once.(So different from Kate) I have too much self respect. Although that is a bit of a paradox isn’t it. About to start an affair/self respect?

How about you? I would really like to know if you are playing around, I know you said you arent so I will just have to trust you. I suppose I am quite vulnerable this being my first time.

Not playing around at all.(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)  I was thinking of chucking the site when we got in contact.  If we click then I want exclusive too which again sounds wierd but cleanliness is essential for me as well as you.  If it’s as good as I anticipate then why look elsewhere aswell?(OH MY GOD)
Could you not make ‘the gym’?
xxxx
Just really want to talk to you face to face so that you know I’m genuine xxxxx (genuine…now there’s a word for you!)
Just went for a quick 3 mile run instead. Couldn’t be bothered going the gym! He is just getting out the shower now so will have to go before I get caught!!

I do hope you are genuine!!

Trudy. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

OK Trudy.  Let me know when you’re available to meet and we’ll get something organised.  
Take care for now xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Yes, I’m definately genuine by the way xxxxxxx

NEXT DAY………………………

Haven’t stopped thinking about your email all night.  I was totally gutted that I got the job done so quickly (I’ll bet he was gutted)- if only I’d have known that before hand then I wouldn’t have cancelled on you.  It was just unfortunate but what you suggested about the snog in the car sounded great. 
I can’t believe that your husband hits you.  That’s so cowardly!  Why does he do this?  Is he drunk at the time?  That’s such a horrible situation for you and something I would never do I’m sure.  I get angry and shout when extremely provoked, but pride myself on having never hit a woman.(he prides himself on this…..what an unbelieveable bullshitter. I actually fely nauseous when I read this)
You’re right about looking across and thinking “Ha”.  Yes I feel like we’ve started an affair already, and have those heart-pounding flutters anticipating another mail.  We haven’t met but I think about you almost constantly at the moment (is that bad?) . (What a lie…he can barely keep up with the 2 of them)
To be clear, I am not looking for lots of women to have sex with, that’s not me at all.  I want an intelligent lady who is fun and exciting and shares the same sexual desires/interests as me (which you certainly do).  I feel very lucky to have found you and am eager to meet too so that we both know how genuine we are about this.
If you have any time this morning why not give me a call.  It would be much easier to organise something and I’m itching to talk to you.  I understand that you have to time things when he isn’t around so if you can’t, it’s not a problem, just let me know.

Hope to speak to you very soon sexy lady.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

And there we have the conversations with Trudy. Now for Kate.

Hi ,
I can’t tell you how sorry I am for today, I hope you don’t think I am messing you about. I was so furious and have been stressed and tense all day. Not to mention uncomfortable with these pvc thongs on. I was all dressed and ready for you. I hope we can still meet.

  • I can’t believe you’ve had to sit around in a PVC thong all day! No wonder you were protesting at your boss – lol! Of course we can still meet. It was very last minute to say the least and you can’t help it if you’ve got to work. That has to come first.(This is a line that Trudy said to him when he cancelled on lunch)

I was gutted earlier, I was feeling so horny at the thought of meeting you.

Are you at home now? Do you want to have a chat at all? Xxxxxx

Hi, so glad youre not mad! I hate the thought of you sitting waiting for me!! I would have gone mad!! I can only chat on here as I have some family round. don’t dissapear now!!

….and I bet you have enough women on here to keep you busy you sexy thing!!

  • Still here. It was just frustrating all round today I think, you were clearly as in the mood as me.

The reason I suggested tonight too was that it’s not often she goes out so it would’ve been a good opportunity. Shame your family are around but again just unfortunate.

You’ll have to let me know when your days off are so that we can better plan a meet. I can often change shifts to work from home if I’m not on project work so we should be able to meet up in the not too distant future. What do you think?.

No like I said only 1 other in the pipeline. You’re the one I want to fuck senseless! Xxx

Tell me about this other one!!! Don’t worry I’m not jealous, Im just wondering if we are alike?

She’s married and looking for a casual session now and again.

Not sure if she’d be up for a 3. We haven’t met. I got talking to her a couple of days before you burst on the scene xxx

We do connect and I think we’re going to have a lot of fun xxx(Funny how he connects with everyone isn’t it?!)

connect in the best ways!!! Did you connect with the other one. Fatal attraction lol!!!?(Me!)
Sorry, I don t mean to pry, I am just interested,

  • It’s cool. No wasn’t sure about her from start but she was persistent and wore me down I guess. Should’ve seen it coming but there you go.(Wore him down did I? Lying bastard.)

And she was wearing FMBs on her profile – brain in penis disease!!!

fuck me boots!! lol. I wonder why she chased you knowing you were married though. You would have thought she would have gone for someone single.

If we get on and want to have regular meets would you want to be exclusive? Xx

I know but some women like to go for married men I guess x(This made me furious. He lied for a month)

no, I m not bothered about exclusive, I want as much fun as poss. I hope thats ok with you!

Yes it’s fine by me Kate. Happy either way really, but was just checking. You’re just out of a marriage and bound to want to play. Not a problem at all.

you are the same arent you. Or would you want exclusive? I thought you were seeing this other woman as well. No point me being exclusive if you are seeing other women too.

Of course. How can I ask for exclusive and then go shagging other women? That’d be cheating lol x(but he tells Trudy he is “exclusive with her)

you cheating whore!!!! How many would you like on the go at once?? and how many women have you slept with in total?

lol – could only manage to fit 1 in at any 1 time anyway unless we all met together. Slept with 34 women up to now.(He told me 45. Now who knows what the real number is?!)

  • Like I said before I’m looking for someone who I can meet when mutually convenient to have good, bed thumping sex with, a regular fuck buddy. Is that what you want or lots of 1 nighters?

Not loads of one nighters. It depends on whether they can satisfy me I suppose!!

Let’s just hope that I can then. Confident I’ll be fine there tho

well thats good to know.
I really have to go now, I am being asked to get drinks!!(Actually, I was bored)
I could talk to you all night. I will be thinking of you when I am masturbating tonight and using my vibrator to have an amazing orgasm. I will be imagining you doing all sorts to me. GOD I am soooooooooooooooo frustrated!!

Me too – going to get my cock out and have a good wank right now. Want a pic? Xxxxxx

Still can’t believe that you had to sit around in a PVC thong all day. Will think about you in that as I have a play. God wish it was my cock between your legs not a piece of plastic. Have a good night sexy lady xxxxxxxxxxxx

This morning…………………………………

  • Must have just missed you. Starting work now so got an early night in. Wish that early night was with you!

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm so you like to taste your own juices too! With you being a good kisser I’m sure I can pop up and give you a taste in between me licking and sucking you soaking wet pussy.

Can’t wait for us to get together. I’d love to have chat with you and I know that we’re gonna click in the bedroom so let me know if you’re available any days next week and I’ll see if I can sort out my diary to make up for yesterday.

Hope you had lots of naughty thoughts as you played with your vibrator and made yourself orgasm. I had a great wank and imagined the 2 of us in my shower cubicle with your legs round my waste (learn to spell you fuckwit)as I pounded you against the wall.

Sleep well gorgeous xxxxxxxxxxxxx

I can’t get you out of my head at all. What have you done to me? Xx

I’m home Wednesday so that would work. Have a good day. Text me over the weekend – I enjoy talking to you and love the anticipation of the next message. xxxxxxx(anticipation of the next message….didn’t he sign off to Trudy in exactly the same way?)

What an absolute areshole. Anyway, now I know that he is free on Wednesday……CUE TRUDY!!!

 

 

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Back to the story

I feel I need to start telling the story again of what happened between him and me, as I am getting lost in recent events. The correspondance between the two women is mounting fast, as are the lies and so I need to get more of the real story out first.

I will give a quick recap. I met him on a dating site. He said he was single. We dated. I continually asked him if this was just about sex. I told him I did not just want a sexual relationship I wanted more. He told me we wanted the same. He used the phrase “I am NOT a sexual pretator…trust me. I found out after we had slept together he was married because he had another profile on the site. I text him. He text back saying he was sorry. He emailed. He called.

When he called we talked for an hour. Talking with him was so easy. He was so damn persuasive that he was developing feelings for me and that he felt nothing for his wife. I still said it was over and goodbye. Then he text

“Please don’t let this be over”

The upshot of this was that we ended up talking on MSN for about 5 hours, both saying how much we felt for eachother…how we clicked. I can’t remember the conversation too much, and unfortunatly I don’t still have it but it was wonderful. He filled me up with everything I wanted to hear. He must have feelings for me….after all he said that if he didn’t he would have let this go. The next day he text me first thing in the morning and we continued to text all day. He wanted to see me. At this point I was struggling with myself. I couldn’t get into an affair with a married man, I just couldn’t. That is when I went on the internet and typed in “affair with a married man” and eventually I came across this site. There was one blog in particular that I immediately became hooked on (you know who you are “M!”) I couldn’t believe what I was reading. This woman had been destroyed by her affair with a married man, and he sounded so heartless. It confirmed to me that I couldn’t do this. I would end up destroyed like her….yet the texts kept on coming. I was having a battle with myself. My head was screaming RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN and my stupid heard was whimpering maybe…..

Why can the whimper of a heart have more effect than a screaming head. I suppose we are all like that hey?

I think he was getting bored of my rejections so he changed tack.

Well you won’t change your mind. Gutted. But goodbye, take care. x”

Manipulation and I KNEW it. I was so so torn. The next morining my phone beeped.

“Have you deleted my number”

“NO!”

“Good…please don’t”

I was worn out with the struggle of this. A man I had fallen for wouldn’t let me go. I was not strong enough to pass this test I’m afraid. I failed miserably and fell prey to a skilled manipulater. Shame on me.

The upshot of this was that I invited him round the next night…. Big mistake.

                                                                 

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Taking Stock

Well before I carry on with the correspondance between the two characters that I have invented I thought I would take stock of the situation so far.

This MM is revelling in the attention of three women. Promiscuous Kate, Vulnerable Trudy and his lovely looking wife. There may be others of course. Now one thing I have noticed from my trickery is that he tells these women what they want to hear. Trudy is more vulnerable and he is very reassuring that its just him and her. Kate isn’t bothered and he is happy to tell her that he has another one in the pipeline.

Yesterday as soon as Kate let him down he was on the phone to Trudy quick as a flash, lying that his job at work had finished early. This man has absolutely no consience whatsoever, and the lies just roll out of him as easily as air. The way he speaks about me-the real me-to  both of these women is not only disrespectful but also filled with lies. He says that he ended it (LIE) He says that I wore him down (MASSIVE LIE) he says that I knew he was married all along (ENORMOUS FILTHY STINKING LIE-he told me he wanted a relationship with me)

I know these women arent real but I am actually feeling sorry for Trudy. I suppose she is a bit like me in some ways. She thinks its just the 2 (well 3) of them and he lies to her the most. I know now just what game he was playing with me. The whole thing was a lie. And yet the way he looks, talks everything……he DOES come across as genuine – a little dopey and harmless. Harmless couldn’t be further from the truth.

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Stood up.

LADIES AND GENTLEMEN….STEP RIGHT UP……………….THE GREATEST SHOW ON EARTH IS ABOUT TO  BEGIN…………………………………..

I was nervous and excited this morning, the day of the set up. Last night my friend sent him a message from his phone pretending to be Kate….

“Hi, its me. x”

 Well of course he had no idea which woman this was. HA. He sent back

“Hi how are you. x”

My friend didn’t text back and left him hanging. This morning “Trudy” the one he blew off – telling her he had to do a job because someone at work had slipped a disk (what an elaborate lie) because he wanted sex with “Kate” -sent him an email

“Hi you….don’t work too hard today, speak later. xx”

My friend and I set off to the place where I, sorry “Kate” had suggested. I sent him in for coffee and donoughts because thats what you do on a stake out!!!! We were well hidden between two camper vans and a bush at the back of the car park but I could see the arriving cars through a gap in the hedge. I must admit I was a bit scared at this point…what if I was seen? Anyway….11.30 came and went and I began to panic a little. What if he didn’t turn up?? No worry. At 11.38 his car pulled into the car park.(LATE!) OH JOY!!! He went into the first bay where we used to meet so there was no chance of us being found. He went inside and then “Kate” sent a message

“This meetings running late, grab yourself a coffee and I’ll be there asap. sorry xxx”

“No Problem, see you soon. xx”

My friend  “Aidan” and I were beside ourselves with glee!!! I sent “Aidan” in to get a good look at him as he had never seen MM in the flesh before. As he went in MM was getting a coffee and looking very pleased with himself, freshly washed and smart/casual clothes. I bet he had an extra special wash this morning. My friend came out and reported his findings. It was at this point that I realised we didn’t have to stay anymore, my work here was done and I didn’t want to risk being caught. We drove away so happy that he was sitting there waiting for a fictional person with condoms in his pocket, sure of having sex, while his wife was at work and fictitional “Trudy” was waiting for him to finish work. I bet he was sooooooooooooo beefed up with all these women hanging off him. What an idiot. He is being played and he has no clue.

Anyway as we drove away we decided to keep him waiting there for 45 minutes before “Kate” sent a text

“I am so so sorry…my boss has asked me to stay behind and I can’t get away. Please don’t think I am messing you about. I am gutted. xxx

“ok. I best be off then. Don’t worry its not your fault. She(His lovely wife) isn’t home till 9.30 tonight so if you get a chance maybe we can meet then. Can you call me? xx

“Can’t call as I am at computer now, but will text later. so sorry again. xx

So there he was. Poor thing. Stranded at a motorway service station that he had driven 45 minutes to, nursing a cold coffee dressed in his best. Stood up. Suddenly there was a beep of a text message…………yes you guessed it, on TRUDYS PHONE.

“Hi the job has finished early…can we meet”(CAN YOU BELIEVE THE AUDACITY OF THIS MAN!!!!!!!)

So he was hoping to fill his time meeting Trudy. So Heartbroken he was about being stood up, and not one to miss an opportunity!!. Trudy text back

“Hi…sorry, because you said you were working I have made plans”

“My wife isn’t home till later tonight, I really can’t wait to meet you” (Well he didn’t want to waste those comdoms did he!)

“I’ll see what I can do…text you in a bit”

Well that was nearly 6 hours ago and no one has text him. I bet he has been checking his phone all day!!

 

 

 

 

 

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All Set

Well it is all set. A date with Kate for sex tomorrow. She has told him she wants to meet in a motorway services near to her home first to check if he is real….”after all you don’t know who you are talking to on here” He is expecting a text off both women and so from my friends phone I am going to send…”Hi its me xx” AND HE WON’T KNOW WHICH ONE IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Me and my friend are going to hide out like detectives in the car park and watch him being stood up. I am even going to tell him to buy the condoms. “Kate is going to be stuck in a meeting” and “so so sorry”

He sent “Trudy” an email before.

Can’t stop thinking about this now – very excited about meeting you.  Think we’re going to have a lot of fun and give each other the spark we both need.  I’m gutted about tomorrow.(He will be gutted that he missed meeting her to be blown off by Kate!)

Feel free to text me any time by the way. 

This guy is being so screwed with, and it is so deserving. I haven’t even told the story yet of how he treated me…..but just look at how he is treating “Kate and Trudy”….let alone his WIFE!

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Double trouble

Well as I write this I am being a busy busy girl. MM is currently talking to both women (Trudy and Kate). He sent a message to Katie on the site this morning, and is emailing Trudy. I don’t know how he is keeping up with it.

He told Trudy he was dissapointed that she didn’t text last night, he said he was checking his phone like a teenager. He is now setting up a date with her for tomorrow. Trudy told him her husband was around all night, and she was sorry for not texting. She can’t wait to see him tomorrow!! (naturally she is going to stand him up at the last minute…of course when he has already left and taken the time to drive many miles) He told her he would never get involved with a single woman again after the “last experience” (me!) Trudy asked if the single woman was a bunny boiler….. she said it was strange that this single woman wanted to knowingly get involved with a married man .He totally ignored this and spoke of something else in the next mail. Maybe he can’t bear to lie too much about me hey?

At the same tiime he sent Kate a good morning on the site. Kate is a bit more sexual and so the sexy talk started early. She casually asked if he had anyother women in the pipeline(I want to know how many lies he is prepared to tell)He said there is one other (My god he really is being honest-also I know he is only talking to me….and me!!!) but he doesn’t know if it will go anywhere. He says he is so attracted to Kate. They are talking about what they like in bed. He says he likes deep throat oral (sorry to be crude but we did this) Kate then asked if he did this wth the single woman(me)

This is his reply

Yes I did. She was wearing PVC thigh boots too. It was an amazing night, shame she wanted a lot more than I was willing to give really. But she did start to turn a bit Fatal Attraction so had to stop it.(Lying bastard….I ended it and I was never “fatal attraction”)

 

 At the same time Trudy has asked him if he has anyone else in the pipeline as she doesn’t want to be one of many.

 no I haven’t got others in the pipeline.(no, only Kate who he is discussing deep throat with)

He thinks he is such “the big man” at the moment talking to these 2 women at the same time while his wife is at work. How wonderful that I am leading him on and making a massive fool of him.

I had organised a date with him and Trudy. She told him not for sex. He said great, lunch would be good.

I then organised a date at the same time with Kate. She wants sex.

He has now asked Trudy if they can do today as he “might get called away on business tomorrow at short notice and would hate to let her down!!

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh he choses Kate for sex over Trudy for lunch. What a shocker. This could go on all day. They are both going to be busy now and leave him hanging!


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Gotcha!

Well, what an interesting day it has been today. All I can say is he is hooked on fake profile no1 and hooked on fake profile no 2! I have had such a fun day leading him on with two face women. Here is some of the correspondance from profile number one…lets call her Trudy!

   
 Morning 08:08, 07/09/10   
Hi xxxxx,How are you? xxxx x

 
 Proper Introduction 08:53, 07/09/10   
Hi xxxxxx,Sorry about the quick message earlier. I thought that you might’ve been online as you had something in your eye and winked at me!I see that we are very similar in what we are looking for and you seem like you have a degree of intelligence (stringing 3 sentences together on this site is nothing short of a result!), so if you are still interested in getting in touch, then message me back and let’s see how we get along.

xxxx x”

Hi xxxx,

I know what you mean about stringing sentences together, I’m glad you can too, there are so many men on here who sound dense!!!

So how long have you been on the site, have you met anyone yet? I only joined yesterday but have had lots of messages already, I wonder if it is the same for men?

I am having to be really careful as obviously my husband is around sometimes, so I have a fake email account!! How about you, how do you keep this from your wife?

I have been married for 5 years but am really unhappy. My husband is not very nice and my home life is miserable, I just want some fun! I have no desire for sex with him but obviously have to do it sometimes to keep him happy, but I really miss exciting heartpounding sex. How about you?

Re: Morning

 

   
 Re: Morning 10:37, 07/09/10   
Hi xxxxxx.I have been on the site for a couple of months, but in that time have only met up with 1 person. We met a couple of times, but it turned out that she was single and wanting far more than I could give or wanted to for that matter,(ok lets skip back to that email he sent me when I found out he was married… “We have so much in common that it was impossible for me to open up and not see you again, I really wanted a relationship with you”.)  so it didn’t go beyond that, other than that I have chatted to a few people but not as yet met any.I’m not surprised that you had a lot of messages, you look and sound great and it seems that the men are much more actively involved in recruitment than women. I guessed that you were new as you hadn’t winked or added me as a favourite before, nor had you come up on any of my searches. But welcome anyway.

Which site did you become a member of? Just to let you know that there are around 7 sites interlinked on here. I joined the married one as I don’t believe in telling lies about the scenario that I’m in. (hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Ha.)

About me, well very similar to you really. I need to be quite careful, have a fake email address (xxxxxxxxxxxxxx if you’d like it and don’t think me too forward – hope not). Yes I keep this from my wife also, my reasons are on my profile – again being honest about it.(such an honest man) I initially worried that she may see my picture on here, but then again if she does at least I’ll know she’s looking too!!! I’m sorry to hear that your life at home is miserable. Maybe some day I can put a smile back on your face.

I am definately looking for the same sparks that you are – heartpounding sex – what a fantastic description of it.(yes…just like the sex we had through the night) Just the anticipation of a reply is more of a spark than I get at home these days. I miss the feeling too much and so decided to join here not to let life pass me by.

 
 Re: Morning 12:16, 07/09/10   
This is very exciting by the way. Smiling now hoping for a reply. Hope my explanation wasn’t too brief. If it was just ask xx (He is smiling-hook line and sinker!!)
 
 Re: Morning 12:20, 07/09/10   
Well I love dressing up in the bedroom, but I haven’t done that in a while, sex is kind of an obligation now, I avoid it where possible. I just don’t feel turned on by my husband anymore. I can’t wait to feel turned on again. You like to take charge eh?? Interesting, lol.So are you just after a fuck buddy for occasional meets, if so thats great by me. I don’t want a boyfriend either! (This is her being exactly what he wants…my way of reeling him in)
 
 Re: Morning 12:22, 07/09/10   
Yes that would suit me perfect. Finding someone like that on here in xxxxxxxx is so difficult. I’d be very interested, how about you? xxx
12:26, 07/09/10 
Yes I think so, you are very attractive you know!! I would be a bit nervous…you would have to be gentle with me!!!Also You seem like a really honest person(I couldn’t help this) (well apart from with your wife, lol but I can understand that) I mean on here you are clear about what you want and don’t want and I like that.(oh how I love honesty) I like to think I am the same. xxxx

 

I live in xxxxxxxxx I don’t suppose we are too far from eachother, although it doesnt matter really. I am finding it hard to concentrate you sexy distraction you!!!(playfulness, he loves that)

I do think you can tell if you get on, even by these messages. I have tried to respond to some but there is just nothing there, if you know what I mean. I expect your wife is home soon, I have another few hours before I resume my charade. Do you think she suspects what you are doing, or are you able to pretend everything is fine?

 
 Re: Morning 14:58, 07/09/10   
I don’t think that she suspects anything yet but I don’t think I’ll be on here for too much longer. Depends if I’ve found what I think I have.You too are proving a seriously sexy distraction too, I certainly don’t usually come on here this often. Usually once a day, so that’s a complement.Hope you haven’t got too many admirers, I do know what you mean about nothing there, I get that feeling very often and manage around 3 replies before I’m bored. 

xxxxxxxx isn’t too bad at all, so it would be relatively easy to meet I think. We should arrane to meet up and see how we get on. That way we know if things are going to progress beyond chat, but I’m confident that we will as we both want the same things from what I’ve heard so far.

Do you think your husband knows anything? Or is he oblivious?

 

 

   
 Re: Morning 15:02, 07/09/10   
 I’m free – call me xxxxxxx

 

   
 Re: Morning 15:07, 07/09/10   
waiting ……….. she’ll be back around 20 past xx (he is waiting…checking his messages…waiting some more, just like I often did…boy this is so satisfying!!)

 

   
 Re: Morning 15:14, 07/09/10   
Looks like you’re busy with other messages and work again and she’ll be back in 5 so imagine the thought of me gently teasing your nipples with my tongue and then running my tongue down your body and finally between your legs to gently tease and suck your clitoris until you lose control.God I’m turned on now thinking of the taste of your sweet juices flowing. Mmmm xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx(I think I will leave him hanging until tomorrow. Poor thing.)

 Well there we go, hook line and sinker….and he has no idea its me. But all along he has been talking to profile number 2 lets call her Katie

  17:41, 07/09/10 
 

 

   
  17:37, 07/09/10   
 

I hope you don’t think me too forward sending you a message, but you caught my eye. I like the look of your profile, you say you have a dry sense of humour and I really like that. I see you are married and that isn’t a problem for me as I have just seperated and want some no strings fun with someone who doesn’t want any commitment. Hope to hear from you soon. X

   
   
 
,I’m glad that you liked my profile. I like the look of yours too and you’re

exactly the sort of person that I’m looking for. No strings fun and no complication. Sounds great to me. And with the added bonus of being able to string 2 sentences together.(oh its 2 sentences now..it was 3 with trudy!)
Have you been separated for long?

 

   
  17:41, 07/09/10   
By the way I don’t think you’re too forward at all. I’m a totally honest person (HONEST!!!!! WHAT A JOKE!)as you can see. I find honesty very attractive and appreciate you not judging me for what I’m doing x
 No I don’t judge. To be honest its better for me if the guy is attatched…saves them getting attatched to me!! I don t want anything heavy.So how long have you been on here? Have you met anyone yet?I’ve only been on a few days. Are you just looking for one regular “mistress” or are you about playing the field? I really don’t mind! I am just glad to be seperated now!

Thanks for replying

  17:57, 07/09/10   
I’ve been on here a month and met 1 person,(Me!) but she wanted more than just an occassional meet,( which is what I want. Prefer not to play the field too much, just meet for a good session of sex when mutually convenient. Does that suit you?What sort of things do you like in the bedroom? xx 

 
  18:11, 07/09/10   
Not very often and the spark isn’t there. I love the heart thumping anticipation(recognise this from “Trudy!! Hahaha) and excitement of a new relationship. You don’t seem tarty at all, of course you have needs. And I felt bad for asking then. Thought you weren’t going to reply again!!!Are you talking to many men on here – if you don’t mind me asking?(Ha…his guilty concience is making him insecure!)

   
     
 

   
     
 

 

 

             

 Well………….isn’t he the charmer!!! 2 women he has been talking to all day (and god knows how many more) and he would fuck the both of them given the chance!! And “she asked him how long it had been since he had sex….He said 2 months………………..We fucked all night 2 weeks ago.   SUCH A LIAR!!!

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