A Rabbit in the Headlights

Yesterday after I told married man that I knew him he went off line. I was surprised that he didn’t confront this person who said they knew him from the wedding, and when I came back from being out I signed in again.

xxxx HAS DELETED HIS PROFILE FROM THIS SITE AND IS NOT VISIBLE TO ANY USER.

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What a result!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is running scared……a rabbit in headlights. I have to say I was absolutely thirilled. He had obviously believed this and was terrified. I couldn’t have wished for better. However now that Denise was out of the picture I wasn’t ready for the messing of the married man to be over and Trudy sent him an email.

Hi xxxx,

I did read your mail the other day and decided to not get in touch as I’m not cut out for this. I can’t stop thinking about you though. I went on the site today and it said that you are no longer on it. Is this because of me? If so I suppose it means you are not looking for anyone anymore, and I am just a bad experience you had. I really wish we had met that day.Maybe we can talk again sometime?

Hope you are ok and I didn’t hurt you too much

Trudy. x (Manipulation or what??! Well I did learn from the master!!)

 

Now I’ll be honest…..I did not for one minute expect him to reply. For one I didn’t expect him to be so stupid and gullible, but I guess I overestimated him. I mean….he has just been absolutely stung by someone on the internet….he should run a mile from the lot of them. However…………….

That night her phone beeped with a text.

If you want to talk sometime I am still here

YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHOOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  SCORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I was overjoyed! I still had that link and I could find out how he was feeling. Now you must excuse me while I blow my own trumpet but I do feel very clever. This couldn’t have worked out better. He trusts vulnerable Trudy, and is shitting his pants because of Denise, and I get all of the inside information. Oh it does make me smile. And he still has no idea that it is all me. Genius. Sorry about that self indulgent praise, but it had to be done, lol!

Trudy of course mailed him straightaway.

Can’t keep texting as he is asking who it is.(actually, I don’t want to spend any money on him!) So why have you deleted your account? Hope you don’t mind me asking….I know its nothing to do with me.

Trude. xx

 

 “ALL LIARS…………..THEIR PART SHALL BE IN THE LAKE THAT BURNS WITH FIRE AND BRIMSTONE” (revelation 21.8:cited in The Beast Within-Madonna:1993)

 

That’s OK Trudy, don’t get in trouble on my account.  This was meant to be a quick reply but has wound up looking like War & Peace lol.

There were a few reasons that I decided to remove my membership from the site.  Firstly,I had been chatting to someone recently on the site and it turns out that they know both me and the wife from a wedding that we attended.  Whilst they don’t have a clue as to the circumstances behind my being on the site in the first place, they decided to hurl a bag of abuse to me. (cheating shit is hardly a bag of abuse)  I decided that it was far too open a forum for me.
 
I also thought that it was not really the place for me.  Whilst I met you on there, as I said before there are not many genuine people that I felt I clicked with, and most of the women that I chatted to I felt no attraction to or that are capable of intelligent conversation, and was ultimately uninterested in them.  In total I have chatted to 4 women on a reasonable level in the 3 months I have been there. (ALL ME) The first I told you about before who was a single woman wanting too much, then, as I began talking to you, there was another woman who I arranged to meet once but we didn’t due to her work commitments.(ME!) Finally the woman I recently talked to turned out to be someone who recognised me. (Nope…just lil ole me!!) That was the last tap with the hammer and I decided to call it a day.

 

P.S sorry again about the length of this mail x

 

 

Thanks for the mail I appreciate it.

OMG- I can’t believe someone you know has found you on there. I take it they haven’t told your wife yet? You must be out of your mind with worry. I am going to delete mine now because if that happened to me I don’t know what I would do. Even if they didn’t tell my husband straight away it would always be hanging over me…. they could send all the messages to her, bloody hell! Sorry I don’t mean to worry you….Im just thinking what could happen, but I’m sure you are thinking all this anyway. Did you respond to them. If not, maybe you should and explain before they blow the whistle.

I am so worried for you.

Let me know whats going on.

Trude x

 

If my wife is told then sobeit, that’s my fault for registering on there in the first place.  It will always hang over me though, I agree.  Yes they may send all the messages to her.  I just have to hope that doesn’t happen.  As far as I know it has happened up to now but you never know. (….no you never do know)

I didn’t respond to the person at the time, which I regret now.  It would have been the more sensible thing to do as I haven’t actually done anything wrong apart from talk to women on the internet.  I haven’t done anything physical. (LIAR) I wouldn’t know how to contact this person now anyway.  It does make me a bit paranoid though – for all I know, you could be her as you contacted me about the same time.  Are you? (His head is messed up………I am thrilled!)

At the end of the day I have to be willing to take the consequences of my actions. Do you have any ideas for me at all?

x

 

 

HI again,

I am going to try and not be offended by the implication that I am the person who did this. You are obviously paranoid and on high alert as I would be. But you have spoken to me on the phone….you know I am real.

Do you know who the person is, if you do then you could maybe ring and explain the situation, I don’t know how far it went.Obviously the person doesn’t know you slept with the single woman so as far as they are concerned you have only been talking to women on the internet.(you didn’t tell her/him this did you?)

I can’t imagine how you must be feeling to be tricked like that. I am so shocked and am going to delete my profile now.

Do you think you will just stick to working out your marriage now?

Sorry I haven’t any advice on what to do. Just sit tight I suppose and be ready for the shit to hit the fan. I really feel for you.

xxx

I’m glad that you didn’t take offence Trude, yes of course I know that you are real having spoken on the phone.  Sorry. (Bless him)

I didn’t have sex with the single woman, I should never have said that as it didn’t happen.(He just takes the absolute piss.)  We just met a couple of times, first at a cafe and the second time at a pub, but she gave me the impression that she wanted more than I was willing so I didn’t pursue that one.(such a gent isn’t he)  I din’t want to appear like a novice at this, which I so obviously am. (Well obviously) I didn’t know you as well then either.  Had I told you what happened in the first place, then maybe you wouldn’t have suspected me of having lots of women on the go and actually met me, which would have been great.

I’m not going near internet dating again.  It’s not for me really Trude.(ohhhhhhhhhhh, but you were loving it up till yesterday werent you you sleaseball)

I’m not sure what to do about marriage.  What about you?  What are you going to do?  You’re obviously not happy, don;t love him any more and want to meet me deep down.  I’m totally ready for the shit to hit the fan.(jolly good)  Maybe that’ll be the catalyst for it to run its course anyway.  I should have thrown her out when she cheated on me.  I regret that now as I haven’t go over it – clearly.

Are you free to talk at all today?  

xx

I would have loved to chat but my phone has been playing up and today it won’t bloody switch on at all. I am having to take it down to the place I got it and see if they can sort it. I will let you know as soon as its fixed. We are going away at the weekend to stay with a friends in Lancaster so won’t be in contact at the weekend.

You silly sod saying you slept with the single woman to make yourself sound better!!!!! I take it she wasn’t a bunny boiler after all then. It shows you had respect for her that you didn’t sleep with her when you knew she wanted more. So many men would have done for their own sexual gain. You must be a real gentleman!

You sound really down today. 😦

I just feel such a prat Trudy. 

Shame that your phone is playing up but I’m sure we will catch up soon anyway.  Try charging it up 😉  xx

I got the feeling that she was going to be a bunny boiler as she was constantly texting me and saying how much I meant to her !?!?!  I had only met her twice so how could that be?  It was so much easier just to walk away from that one.(now lets just remind ourselves here……WHO wouldn’t stop texting? WHO whouldn’t let it go?? FUCKING LYING DICK!)  As I said before, I don’t just sleep with anyone.  I’m not that sort of man.

What about your circumstances?  Are you still as unhappy?  I think that we should meet some time.  It would answer a lot of questions.  You still think about me and vice versa.  At least if we met we would know.  There would be no pressure.  Just meet for lunch some time maybe as we arranged before.  Wht do you think?

Hope that you have a decent weekend with your friends.

Send me some kisses – that’ll make me smile again xxxxxxxx

I haven’t actually had an affair so I am as inexperienced at this cloak and dagger routine as you. (LIAR) I know that you felt as though we were having an affair to some extent and it was/is exciting to chat to you but it wasn’t an affair in the strictest terms of the word.

As I said before it is too open a forum and I would hate something like that to cost me my job or unnecessary problems. (unnessecarry problems…I like that…his wife finding out is an unneccessary problem!) I didn’t realise there were so many sites owned by the same company when I registered!

I have to say that in short the site(s) really isn’t (aren’t) for me.  Some of the women and from what I hear the men are awful. It has left a bad taste in my mouth about internet dating totally.  How do you feel about it?

I think about you a lot too Trude, I worry about your husband hitting you and also wish that we had at least met so that we could talk about everything.  Maybe after this mail you won’t want to know me but I do very much hope you still do!

I would really like to meet you too as I said in my last mail. At least to talk and you’ll then see how honest a person I really am.(ahem)  We can discuss our reasons for being on there in the first place.  It doesn’t necessarily have to lead to anything at all.  That would be something to discuss at the time.

Please be clear that you haven’t hurt me at all.  I was disappointed that we didn’t meet but by the same token I totally understood your reasons and respected them.

Hope to hear from you soon

 

Phew!!! So there we go. He is running scared….but not that scared. This hasn’t caused him to realise how much his marriage means to him. It means nothing. He is just scared of getting caught. Spineless idiot. Who KNOWS what is going to happen now. I have no idea………………………………….

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

D Day

Well today’s the day….the worst day MM has had in a long time I would imagine. I set off early with my new detective friend “Caroline” to get a good spot. I was thinking to myself……this is the third Thursday he has arranged a meeting with a woman off the internet to see if she is a suitable sex partner to cheat on his wife with. Has he not cottoned on yet?? We got a good spot at the back of the car park behind a bush but with a good view of the entrance. We were very early and I needed tha ladies so I decided to chance it. I was aware of the risks and I must admit I was scared. I was in plenty of time though and safely back in the car with my drink and doughnut. He arrived 2 minutes early this time, and my friend walked to the entrance to have a cigarette. He strolled in past her completely unaware and went to get his coffee. She came back to the car and we sped off triumphantly! Another one for the team!!!! This time there was no text off Denise as she hadn’t even given her mobile phone number to him. Thats how desperate he is. He didn’t even have her number, yet he was prepared to meet her. Stupid bastard. When we got back to my house I had to decide what to do. This, after all, was D Day for him. There had to be a point to all of this…a point that he was aware of, not just to make me feel better. I signed on the site and he had left a message. My heart was pounding…..

Hey, Denise, what happened to you today

I thought carefully. I was really scared now, as this was the time for the big reveal. I typed out my message.

I just wanted to see how far you would go to cheat on xxxxx. I was at xxxxx and xxxxxx’x wedding and I recognised your picture off the site. You cheating shit.

Well he was showing up as online at the time so we waited for his response. I swear to God I was shaking from head to toe, while my friend was reassuring me that he would be feeling worse than I was. We waited. And waited. And waited………. And then he went offline. That’s where we are right now. I am guessing he is shitting himself and so he should be. However I am full of anxiety. I am worried that there will be some comeback on me. But like my friend said….the profile is fake….the email is fake…..and he would have no idea it could be me. He doesn’t know I know about the wedding he went to.

I am not going to tell his wife. I am not brave enough. Have a good day MM.

 

Groundhog Day

Date number 3. Tomorrow. 12pm. Denise.

MM has set this all up himself. I let him choose the date, time and venue…….and guess what?? He has chosen the motorway services – you know-where the real me  and him used to meet, and where he was stood up by Kate. He certainly is a creature of habit. He is going to have a really bad day tomorrow as Denise, after she has stood him up, is going to mail him that she is actually someone he knows from the wedding I saw on Facebook. My good friend who has accompanied me previously has gone away to university now, but another friend has very kindly offered (well begged!!!) to come.

Over the last few days he has been texting Trudy and Kate, and he has sent Trudy an email.

You are so kind after what I did yesterday.(My turn for a bit of manipulation)
> I am glad you are not mailing other women. I can usually trust my instinct, in my line of work my instinct helps me out a lot, and I just had a strong feeling you were playing about on that site.
> My instincts must have been wrong this time. You seem like a lovely man, and very genuine. I am sorry. x (hahahahahaha!)
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Please don’t worry about it Trudy. I think we are 2 unhappy genuine
people and that it would be a real shame for us not to at least meet
up. You are clearly interested in me as i am in you.(oh you’d better believe it boyo, but not for the reasons you think!)

I can understand your reticence as I do look a bit of a player on my
profile but it’s about the only photo where i don’t look a total pleb!
Lol. Never did photo well.( see how he doesn’t actually say he isn’t playing about… very clever)

Do you think it possible that we may still meet some time?

X

Trudy hasn’t messaged him back, and she won’t either. She might send him a text when he is waiting for Denise though. Brace yourself MM…….tomorrow is not what you think.

 

Everyday Life.

This post isn’t about MM. Its about my ex husband. I have just got off the phone to him and I am upset. I suppose I need to make sense of the argument we just had over the phone. I think maybe I was unreasonable  but I just couldn’t help it. You see he lives with his new family now. His new children. Mine have to play second fiddle and I don’t like it. We were talking about arrangements for the weekend. Now there is one thing you should know about my ex husband, He is a selfish bastard. I receive £2.50 a week for each child and I had to go through an agency to get that. Yet he lives in a huge brand new house with every computer, huge t v ,and gadget s going. The garden is 5 times the size` as mine and there is a downstairs toilet. When I asked for him to buy my daughter a pencil case for her new term at school he said “Ok……give me the money then” He lives on benefits and pays for nothing, the house they live in is all paid for by welfare. He even earns money on the side from photography, but do we ever see a penny of it?….no. His new children reap the benefits of his prescence though. When I said that my girls needed picking up before 5 so my elderly mother could get the bus home (I am at university till 6 working hard for a teaching degree and raising 2 children on my own while he sits around on his backside playing computers all day) he said he might not make it because he has to pick his new child up from school. Now I understand he has a new life, but this just wound me up. My girls are taking second place to his new children….who I might add he has known for less than a month. When I got a bit arsey about this he didn’t like it, but I did have an attitude.

There is so much that gets to me about him still. He left us nearly 2 years ago, 3 weeks before Christmas. He then informed me that he had been taking cocaine for the last 6 months and was 15, 000 in debt. Then he posted private pictures of me on an internet site on which people rate your private parts and when he told me, he informed me that I was doing well….nearly top of the league. I felt like I had been raped.

He has been freeloading ever since…with whoever he can, his brother, his sister, his mum. Even when his mum has given him money to take the girls out for the day, he takes them to the park and pockets the money. He makes me so mad. He has no idea what it is like to be a parent. He is a glorified babysitter to my children, but if you were to ask him he would say he was father of the year. It is me who makes the desisions….which school they will go to……..what their diet is…….whether they get to school on time….healthcare…….and he sits on his backside and tells me he will be here when he can??? All that ever comes first with him is him. I feel a bit better now for having my rant, and reading it back, maybe I am not being too unreasonable. He has always had a way of making me feel like I am the one with the problem, turning things round so it is my fault.

Also I have to admit that I feel bitter that he has a new partner. He doesn’t have a great deal going for him lets face it. He barely brushes his teeth and goes days with out showering. He is in collossal debt and is the laziest person I know. How does he get to be in a relationship while I am still single nearly 2 years on. I wish I didn’t feel like this but it doesn’t seem fair.

What to do???

Now that I have caught my prey I’m not sure what to do with him. I am having great fun messing him around, but he is a toxic prescence in my life that I can’t keep forever. Just seeing his picture when he sends me a message on that site makes my stomach turn like I have smelled off milk. Up to now he has been stood up by 2 women. One of them has offended him by teling him she has slept with another man, and that leaves the final one. I really want MM to know that he is being messed with….but as some of my friends have said it could be dangerous to me if he finds out I have been doing all of this. After all he has blacked his wife,s eye and has no respect for women. I would really like Denise to tell him she is someone he knows and she knows he is messing around on his wife. That would scare the literal shit out of him and would leave me high and dry. She could stand him up as well, in fact I think she will, then on the same day tell him she has pictures of him at the place and is going to send them to his wife. Again this will leave me high and dry.

Trudy could then tell him that she was Kate as well. Then he will be really messed around. And if I do it on the same day it will blow his mind!! If he had his own way here he would be sleeping with 3 women other than his wife, and if he isn’t stopped then his wifes health and dignity is in danger. I am feeling angry right now that this prick thinks he can get away with it and I want him to know that he isn’t “THE MAN” after all, but at the same time keeping myself safe. The upshot of this really is that I want it all over by next week. I am going back to university and my life begins again….I won’t have time for this, and also I don’t want him polluting my life anymore. Its going to end with a bang thats for sure.

Zero Conscience

After yesterday’s events and Trudys apologetic email I didn’t expect MM to contact her again. To my surprise, this morning there was a text on her phone

Thanks for the mail. Please check yours. x

 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

 

 

Oh God, he had sent another mail. I really thought he was done with Trudy. After all she was laden with emotional baggage, not the no strings fuck he is after. When I opened the mail my heart sank. It sank because I was so saddened that there are people in this world who can be so cruel and manipulative to someone they know is a gentle kind soul who is hurting. MM is cold, calculating and has no conscience whatsoever. Here is the mail. See what you think………

Firstly let me clarify that I am not in any way angry with you.  Don’t be daft!  You must have felt so vunerable.(Manipulation)

I totally understand you bottling out.  It is a big step.  The thing I can’t understand is that you are so unhappy and have a husband who, you say, has lost all respect for you and even stoops to hitting you at times.  That’s awful. ( yes, it must have been awful for your wife when you gave her a black eye) 

I am not chatting to other women on the site.(Big, fat, dirty ,disgusting lie)  When I first met you I told you that finding a woman in the same situation that you click with is a very rare thing(so rare…thats what he always said to me) and that I had been on the site for nearly a month and a half. (Lie…he has been on it 5 months to my knowledge) This was all true.(TRUE?? I am surprised he even knows how to spell the word)

When I spoke to you on the phone last night I got the impression that you were very excited at the thought of meeting, as was I.  I also told you that I was nervous too.  Surely if I had lots of women on the go, it would be old-hat to me and not a nerve-wracking process.  (good manipulative strategy MM, you MUST be telling the truth then…)

As regards the sex siren and being disappointed with you.  I don’t want a gymnast in bed, clearly I have said things that have given you the wrong impression.  I want someone who stimulates my mind as well as my body, and you do that plenty.

It’s such a shame that you didn’t meet me, you would have found all of this out today. (Poor Trudy would have been even more taken in. He is a suberb actor.) I wasn’t expecting anything other than a good chat to see how we got on, a meal, and then to discuss whether or not we wanted to start seeing each other, maybe a kiss at the end if it was right but I am not the sort of man to force myself on anyone in any way.(is that so???? When he came to my house for the first time I told him it must be just a kiss, nothing more. He had my pants off beore you could say Casinova.)

Like I said before, I totally understand you bottling it, but if you did still want to meet some time then I would be willing to go for 1 more try.  I did pull out last minute the week before after all. 

Sorry if I have given you the wrong impression of me or overstepped the mark in any way.

Isn’t he such a nice man. So caring and thoughtful.

MEANWHILE…………..MEANWHILE…………………………..MEANWHILE…………………………MEANWHILE………

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Hi Sexy Lady,

How are you today Kate? You’re very quiet. I take it that you’re busy at work on the lines.

xxxx 

Kate hasn’t been in contact today. I am going to tell him she has been ill. I just can’t stomach him today, he makes me sick.

BUT AT THE SAME TIME…………………………………………………………….

 Hi Denise

I have been really turned on just thinking about what you plan to do to me. God I’d love to see that flame red hair bobbing up and down on my throbbing cock! xx (This is more like it, this is what he wants, filthy talk) 

You sexy beast you !!! So how big is your throbbing cock? Will it fill me up?

 

I would hope so. It’s a little over 9 inches by 2, probably enough to make you gag if you so desire. Do you think that might take care of you? (He told me it was 10 inches….not a lie you might argue….just rounding up!)

You could make me cum once then we could play for a while before a serious session, or we could just go for the one big session. Only 1 person has ever made me cum giving oral.(this happened when we first sex, he told me I was the only one) Are you up to that challenge? If so I could spunk all over your face for you xx

I just love giving oral xxxx. So what did this person do that was so good it made you cum from just giving head? I wonder if I will be as good. NOt many men can come just through oral alone…she must have been bloody good!!! (thought I would try and get some info about myself!!)

She stuck her finger in my ass,(hang on…that wasn’t me!) but it was more to do with the way that she licked and caressed it. She was very pretty and I wanted to spoil her so I let myself go and thought some very naughty thoughts…. very naughty and I just spurted everywhere.

Would love to see you with my spunk all over your face licking it off your sexy lips.

God I want to fill you with my cock. xx (Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm I was not satisfied with this and needed more info. Was he just jazzing up the story with the finger up the ass comment or was there more to this…..)

Wow that sounds HOT!! was it your wife or someone off here, its really turning me on to hear about it. Tell me more of what you did and I will masturbate……

Wasn’t my wife no. It was a woman I was working with at the time. I stayed a lot in xxxx at the Hilton. Very swish, jacuzzi in the room etc.

She was staying in the same hotel. We had been working on a long project and getting on really well. We had a few drinks in the bar and then got the same lift up to bed. I chanced my arm and kissed her in the lift. She loved it…..

I grabbed her hand and led her to my room. Opened the door, and barely got thru it before she thrust her hands inside my jeans and started to pull on my cock…….(SOOOOOOOOOOO……………….I wasn’t the only one. He must say this to every woman who gives him head!!)

you lucky lucky boy!!! You are certainly a ladies man. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I am really wet now. Was she really the only one to make you come through oral? You must have had lots of women?

 

I haven’t had that many women. Not as many as my age. I’m quite selective.

Yes she is the only one who has managed to make me cum orally. (Liar, liar your bums on fire!)

Tell me what you are doing……

 Anyway…the sex talk continued for a couple more messages before she told him she had to go, as I was getting bored and more sickened by this lousy loser. Think back to that sincere mail to Trudy. “I’m not chatting to other women off the site”  All of this deception to these women, and thats without a mention of the lies he is telling his wife. I wonder how many lies he told today?

 

 

 

 

 

Gutted.

This is the second time I am writing this post. My soul is destroyed. I have spent the last hour pouring out my feelings, copy and pasting stuff, changing colours and making quotes. Only to find it has ALL FRIGGING GONE!!!!! I am furious and feel like throwing my laptop accross the room. Gutted. It was a really good post as well. I will have to leave it till later, I haven’t the heart to do it now. 😦

Round Two

Poor Married Man. When he awoke this morning he must have had a smile on his face and a lump in his trousers. He will have showered extra carefully, and kissed his lovely wife goodbye as she left for work., for today was the day he was meeting Trudy. He logged onto the internet and sent Kate a quick message, then Denise. Kate responded and they had a quick chat.

Hi gorgeous,

Just got your message now. I’m at home again today. God all these missed opportunities!

What have you been up to?

x

In answer to your other mail. Anne Summers …..

You know that I love PVC, clearly, as you were wearing it last time we were supposed to meet. Boots would be the obvious winner lol 😉 A lot of the stuff in there I find tacky, it’s ok for a famous vibrator, but the lingerie is so cheap looking. (Bastard. I spent over £50 on lingerie to wear for him when I though we were a couple, lets just say ..he never complained) I prefer a quality lingerie shop any day. Love it! Does it make you feel sexy when wearing a good quality matching set?

Yes I do love sexy underwear!!!! Although my thong was from Anne Summers you cheeky thing!!! (He then responded that some of the stuff in there was reeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaally good- idiot)

Meanwhile my friend Aidan and I met early and arrived at the scene of the crime early to determine a good hide out spot. When we arrived, to our horrror we realised that there were no bushes to hide in in this car park, and it was deserted. Oh Crap. No worries though, as this pub was right next to an industrial park with lots of office blocks within view. We decided to park there next to another car and here there was a perfect view of the incoming vehicles without being seen. He sent a text to Trudy

Just leaving now are you ok? x

I didn’t reply, and we sat and waited. Now it is this bit of the stake out that I like least. I knew he was on his way and it was like stage fright. My hands were clammy and cold and I was so nervous!

Then, bang on time he pulled into the car park. I saw him this time which I didn’t have the pleasure of last time. He was wearing a blue t shirt that he had worn on dates to me. I had undressed him out of that t shirt. We watched him go inside and made our escape!!!! We high fived eachother as we drove away, another job well done. 15 minutes later Trudys phone rang. We had an initial panic before rejecting the call and then sent  him this text.

xxxx, I am so so sorry. I got as far as xxxxx and had to turn back. I can’t do this. I can’t stop crying. I am so sorry.

There was a slight pause before her phone beeped.

What a long way to come for nothing. Please don’t ever do that to anyone again.

WOW…….He was FURIOUS, I just knew it!!! This was the second time in 2 weeks he had been stood up and boy was he pissed off. It was just the response I wanted, he had wasted time and petrol and was humiliated. BINGO. WINNER. TOP DOLLAR. After about an hour the phone beeped again.

Hope your feeling ok now

I didn’t respond. An hour later…..

regretting not coming in now? Sorry you felt so bad and I was a bit harsh before. Take care

Still I didn’t respond, but was really pleased that she was still on his mind. Then shortly after…

I’m really saddened that we didn’t meet Trude. You sounded like a lovely sincere woman and if you are getting beaten at home then you need to walk away from that. If you ever need someone to talk to…………………….

Well there we have it. He was “saddened” and he sounds like he really cares…right? This is how he trapped me. By making out he cared and by constantly texting, and sometimes playing the martyr. He is very good at the act, and without this insight I would never have known to what extent his manipulation was. As soon as I got home there were messages for Kate and Denise. So caring and genuine isnt he?

Anyway…………Trudy sent him an email as I’m not sure I really want to burn bridges with her yet.

 

Hi xxxx.

I am so very sorry about today. I just bottled it. I am so scared of being found out, and I’m not the person you think I am.(I thought this was quite amusing….after all I’m NOT who he thinks he is!) I am too soft for you , not a bolshy sex siren that you want probably. I didn’t have the confidence to go through with it, and was scared that if you saw me you would be dissapointed.(again, he WOULD be dissapointed to see me!) I did get to be just round the corner,(again…true) but didn’t have the nerve to show my face.  I can’t shake off the feeling that you are talking to/meeting with other women off that site. I’m just not cut out for this. I know you are very angry with me and I can’t blame you. I know I said I would never contact you again but I had to say sorry for being such a faliure.

Take care,

xxxxxx.

 

So there we have it. Stand up number two. I think his pride is severely dented today and I am glad he knows how that feels.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Call

Last night the plot thickened. “Trudy” told him her husband was  going to be out last night, and that he call call to speak in person for the first time.(the reason for this was because my friend was coming over who had kindly offered to be her voice) He said it was going to be difficult as he was at home, but he would see if he could walk the dog to the shops to get 5 mins. Of course he managed this!! My friend and 2 others who were round were all nervous. He text first  to check it was ok, then he rang. We were all silent in the background but hiding behind our hands!

My friend played a blinder!!!!! She was just right….playing Trudy as softly spoken and well mannered, slightly nervous and a little quiet. From my point of view it was just horrible to hear his voice again. That sincere down to earth voice that hides a thousand lies. YUCK. It made me feel sick to hear him. He told her he couldn’t wait to see her and Trudy said likewise. It was a short conversation because he was only nipping to the shops. He said he was nervous too (I think not) and that they would meet at 11 the next day. Well that day is here and I am going to get ready for my next stake out.

As we speak by the way……he is messaging “Kate”

His Game

His  game with the 3 women is still continuing daily. “Kate” told him the other day that she slept with someone over the weekend, and said

“you don’t have a problem with that do you?”

Of course he said he didn’t, but I know it would have hit his pride where it hurts. Naturally after this revelation “Trudy” and “Denise” have been getting much more attention. He hardly messages Kate, only to see if they can still meet up. She mentioned his lack of messages and he said

No, I have just been really busy thats all………………do you think  I have a sexy hareem on here or something, lol (erm…not much you don’t, lol)

Trudy has expressed her concern that he is talking to other women and that she needs it to just be the 2 of them

No others Trude, its just you and me. x

Denise is still having fun getting as many song lyrics into his messages and he has NO CLUE!!!! They are swapping fantasies as we speak!

Tomorrow is the day that he is going to be stood up by Trudy. She is phoning him tonight (curtesy of my friend who has very kindly agreed to step in and play the role) and they are meeting in a pub for lunch at 11.30. Or so he thinks.

Soon it is going to be his D Day. I have a new plan for Denise. She is going to reveal to him that she is a fake and she is someone he knows and she knows he is cheating on his wife. Then I can see what his reaction will be, and he still will have no clue that it is me.

He is getting screwed from all angles. He really shouldn’t have messed with me.